# Refuge.Church

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- [One More Year](https://refuge.church/2026/02/04/one-more-year/): A new year brings mixed emotions. Relief. Gratitude. Exhaustion. Hope. As we stepped into this season, Pastor Nicole offers a simpler invitation: one more year. And with that invitation, we will push back against hustle culture and spiritual performance. It resists the idea that January 1st demands perfection. One more year reminds us that survival counts. Showing up counts. Grace counts. Goals Not Resolutions In this message, Pastor Nicole shares that she sets, and does not make, resolutions. Because it often feels like resolutions leave little room for failure. Therefore, they often frame growth as willpower rather than grace. By comparison, goals feel […]
- [Myth Busters // Everything Happens for a Reason](https://refuge.church/2026/02/03/myth-busters-everything-happens-for-a-reason/): Many people turn to the phrase everything happens for a reason when life falls apart. It sounds reassuring, and it suggests that suffering fits into a bigger plan. However, comfort can quickly turn into harm. When spoken to someone who is grieving, this phrase can feel dismissive. It can minimize pain. It can imply that God caused suffering on purpose. As a result, people begin asking the wrong questions and start to wonder what they did wrong. They search for hidden lessons. They assume blame. Instead of healing, they carry guilt. Where This Idea Comes From The belief behind everything happens for a […]
- [Myth Busters // Purity Culture](https://refuge.church/2026/01/21/__trashed/): Pastor Nicole takes on a big one: Purity Culture. The purity culture myth shaped an entire generation in ways many of us are still uncovering. What was framed as a path to holiness often became a system built on fear, shame, and strict expectations. It didn’t just influence behavior. It reshaped identity, self-worth, and how people understood God. How It Started Purity culture grew rapidly throughout the 1990s and early 2000s, especially within evangelical churches. Church leaders taught teens that their spiritual value rose or fell with sexual abstinence. They placed the responsibility on girls to dress modestly so boys […]
- [Myth Busters // Love the Sinner, Hate the Sin](https://refuge.church/2026/01/21/myth-busters-love-the-sinner-hate-the-sin/): The phrase “love the sinner hate the sin” is familiar in many churches.However, it has also caused deep harm—especially to LGBTQ+ people, single parents, and anyone who has ever felt judged by Christians. In this message, Pastor David explores where the phrase came from, why it’s not biblical, and how Jesus offers a better way—one rooted in dignity, connection, and true compassion. Where Did “Love the Sinner Hate the Sin” Come From? Surprisingly, the phrase love the sinner hate the sin does not come from Scripture.Instead, it traces back to St. Augustine in the 5th century and Gandhi, who later warned that humans struggle to separate sin […]
- [Myth Busters // Christian Nationalism](https://refuge.church/2025/12/30/myth-busters-christian-nationalism/): Christian Nationalism is a phrase that carries weight. For some, it sounds like faithfulness. For others, it feels like fear. Either way, it demands clarity. Pastor Nicole starts with a simple commitment: to put Jesus Christ at the center. Not a party, a platform, or a nation. Just Jesus. Throughout Scripture, Jesus consistently refused to align Himself with empire or political power. He challenged religious leaders who fused faith with control. And He exposed how easily religion becomes distorted when it serves domination instead of love. That tension matters deeply in a moment when Christianity is increasingly nationalized, politicized, and weaponized Christian Nationalism . […]
- [Myth Busters // Inherent & Infallible](https://refuge.church/2025/12/30/myth-busters-the-word-of-god/): Is the Bible really the inherent and infallible word Word of God?This question alone can make a lot of people really uneasy. For many of us, we were taught that the Bible must be perfect to be powerful.Inerrant.Infallible.and ultimately never wrong. But what if that belief has actually limited Scripture instead of honoring it? Pastor Nicole reminds us that the Bible is not a single book; it’s a l library that was written over centuries. By dozens of authors. Across different cultures, languages, and moments in history. Much of it began as oral tradition before ink ever touched paper. That’s […]
- [Myth Busters // More You We Can Handle](https://refuge.church/2025/12/28/myth-busters-more-than-you-can-handle/): “God doesn’t give you more than you can handle.” It sounds comforting, and it’s often said with good intentions. But for many people, it lands like a weight instead of a lifeline. In his sermon, Pastor David confronts that familiar phrase and asks an honest question: Is it actually true? More importantly, is it actually helpful? Sermon God doesn’t give you mor… When a Comforting Phrase Becomes a Burden Most of us have heard this line during moments of deep pain.A loss.A diagnosis.A crisis we didn’t choose. The problem isn’t the heart behind the words.The problem is the message they send. If God only […]
- [Philippians // And With Enough](https://refuge.church/2025/12/23/philippians-and-with-enough/): A Letter Written from Prison, Not Comfort Paul’s words in Philippians 4 were not written from a comfortable place. He was imprisoned, isolated, and waiting for a trial that could possibly end his life. There was no certainty and no guarantee of freedom. Yet Paul writes with joy, telling the Philippian church that he has discovered finding contentment in Christ. This message is all about what it truly means to practice finding contentment in Christ when life feels unstable and unclear. Paul’s peace is not rooted in changing circumstances but in a deeper spiritual connection. What Contentment Is—and What It Is Not […]
- [A Gay Pastor on Kim Davis & Her Same-Sex Marriage Petition](https://refuge.church/2025/11/07/kim-davis-supreme-court-same-sex-marriage/): The Supreme Court is reviewing Kim Davis’s petition about same-sex marriage. Legal experts call it a long shot—but it reminds us why faith should never be used as a weapon. As a Christian pastor, I believe love is holy, sacred, and everyone’s right to celebrate.
- [Philippians // ... With Peace](https://refuge.church/2025/10/14/philippians-with-peace/): What if peace isn’t founds at the “finish line” of our problems – but right in the middle of them. That’s what this message is all about: Living in the Middle with Peace. Because if you were scrolling through TikTok this week wondering if the rapture already happened—don’t worry, you’re not alone. (Good news: you made it.) But here’s the thing… while the internet argues about red cows and the end times, I think Jesus is more interested in how we live right now—in the middle of our anxiety, our uncertainty, and our messy human lives. “Heaven” Starts Here. When the […]
- [Philippians // Living In the Middle](https://refuge.church/2025/09/30/living-in-the-middle/): Paul's message in Philippians emphasizes living joyfully in the middle of life, between beginnings and endings. True belonging comes from an intimate relationship with Jesus, surpassing status and accomplishments. He calls us to reject exclusionary systems, asserting that all belong. As citizens of heaven, we must actively bring love and hope to those in need.
- [Philippians // From Start to Finish](https://refuge.church/2025/09/15/from-start-to-finish/): From start to finish life rarely goes according to plan. It changes, breaks us, and surprises us. But Philippians 1 reminds us of this truth: He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion. Coach Paul As we’ve learn in this series, Paul wrote Philippians from prison. But still his letter is full of encouragement. So much so, many call it “the letter of joy.” Paul wasn’t just a theologian here. He was a coach, a mentor, and voice reminding the church to not give up. Paul was encouraging the Philippians to run until the […]
- [Philippians // To Live as Christ Together](https://refuge.church/2025/09/15/live-as-christ-together/): Welcome to week 2 of our series through Philippians! Last week we looked at what Paul meant when he said, “to live is Christ.” It wasn’t about survival or success, or even suffering. It was about being anchored in Jesus. Living and love the way Jesus did! This week we look at what it means to Live as Christ Together. Paul was in prison, chained, waiting, uncertain of his outcome, yet he managed to find joy. Not because life was easy and everything was going according to plan. But because people were meeting Jesus through him. Joy in the Middle […]
- [Philippians // To Live is Christ](https://refuge.church/2025/09/15/to-live-is-christ/): This week we start a new series. After wrapping our Heroes series; where we talked about injustice, courage, and the silenced voices who still have a place in God’s story. While important, some of it was really heavy. And at Refuge we desire to be like Paul when he says; To Live is Christ. So, our new series is all about good news! Not bad news, scary news, or even “against” news. Just the gospel of Jesus. We’re going to breathe, and spend sometime reconnecting with the Holy Spirit. Honest Discovery Pastor Nicole shares a little bit about her deconstruction […]
- [Heroes // Shiphrah & Puah](https://refuge.church/2025/09/10/shiphrah-and-puah/): Two midwives, and their defiance that changed history, The story of Shiphrah and Pugh in Exodus 1 is one of the most powerful acts of resistance in the Bible. It begins with fear. Pharaoh feared the growing strength of the Hebrew people. Fear turning into oppression. Laws were written. Families enslaved. Lives were being crushed. And then; one brutal decree: “It if’s a boy, kill him….” The Courage of Two Women Shiphrah and Puah were commanded to kill. But instead they chose life. The text says that the “feared God.” Not a trembling fear of terror, but a holy reverence […]
- [Heroes // Two Tamars. One Gospel.](https://refuge.church/2025/09/10/heroes-two-tamars-one-gospel/): Two stories. Two Tamars. One gospel. Most people don’t even realize there are two Tamars in the Bible. One in Genesis. One in 2 Samuel. Their stories are wildly different, yet both reveal something powerful about God’s justice and mercy. Pastor Nicole believes scripture isn’t polished or sanitized. It’s raw, messy, and sometimes painful. And that, in part, is what makes I beautiful. We see the raw, painful, and messy parts in her sermon: Two Tamars. One Gospel. Tamar #1: The Fighter The first Tamar we meet in scripture is Judah’s daughter-in-law. She’s wrong. Lied to. Cast aside. Twice widowed. […]
- [Heroes // Phoebe](https://refuge.church/2025/09/03/heroes-phoebe-the-deacon/): She’s rarely in the spotlight.You may never have heard her name.Yet she was essential. This is Phoebe the deacon. Paul didn’t just call her a helper. He used the same word he used for his closest leaders. She carried letters, led with courage, and modeled faithful service. This sermon brings Phoebe the deacon out of the margins. It restores her place. It makes her unforgettable. Who Was Phoebe—and Why Her Role Matters Paul mentions Phoebe in a simple greeting. But the implications are enormous. She’s called a diakonos—the same Greek term used for ministers, including Timothy and Paul. That means she wasn’t just helping. […]
- [Heroes // Baptisms](https://refuge.church/2025/09/02/heroes-baptism-as-protest/): Let’s be honest… when you hear the word “baptism,” you probably think of white robes or tearful testimonies. You probably don’t think of baptism as protest. But the truth is; baptisms were never meant to be about performance or perfect. In this sermon, Pastor Nicole flips the script and dives deep (pun intended) into the ancient Jewish practice of mikveh and the patriarchal roots that shaped it. Then she pulls the thread all they way back to Jesus in the Jordan. In a radical moment that changed everything! The next stop in our Heroes series is baptism as protest, and […]
- [Heroes // The Invisible Women](https://refuge.church/2025/09/02/heroes-invisible-women-of-the-bible/): What if the greatest stories in the Bible weren’t just about the men we always hear about… but ALSO the invisible women in scripture? These are the women who cooked the meals, nurtured he prophets, raised the leaders, and set their names were never recorded. In this powerful kick off to our series Heroes: The Unsung and Unnamed Women of the Bible, Carly takes the mic to explore what it means to center the marginalized in Scripture. And in doing so, she challenges us to rethink who we call “heroes”. Meet the Women You’ve Never Met We’ve all heard about […]
- [Holy Habits in Real Life](https://refuge.church/2025/07/22/holy-habits-in-real-life/): One Misfit Turning Practice into Purpose In our Holy Habits series we’ve talked a lot about transforming our mental health. How we move from worn out to whole and healed. But it’s one thing to just talk about holy habits, but it’s another thing to see them in action. How do these practices hold up when life gets messy? When grief hits, or the future feels unclear, or you’re just trying to stay sober, stay sane, or stay standing. This particular weekend, we heard from someone who isn’t really a guest, but a special part of the Refuge community. Tom […]
- [Holy Habits // The Work of Love](https://refuge.church/2025/07/10/holy-habits-community/): At Refuge, we’ve spent the last several weeks working though Holy Habits; a series about the sanctity of self-care. But Self-care was never the final destination. It’s the foundation. We care for ourselves so that we can care for others and build community. Love God, Love Yourself, Love Others Jesus said: “Love the Lord God with all your passion, prayer, intelligence, and energy… and love others as well as you love yourself.” (Mark 12:30–31, MSG) Each habit we looked at – meditation, prayer, silence, sabbath, and deconstruction – allows us to heal and reconnect. But healing becomes holy when it […]
- [Holy Habits // Deconstruction and Juneteenth](https://refuge.church/2025/06/19/holy-habits-deconstruction-and-juneteenth/): Jesus, Justice, and Flipping Tables Deconstruction & Juneteenth? Believe it or not deconstruction and Juneteenth are more connected than you might think. At Refuge, we follow Jesus into hard conversations, especially when it comes to justice, truth, and repentance. This week’s message starts to dig into what it means to deconstruct harmful beliefs, examine our history, and root our faith in love and liberation. This message isn’t just a history lesson —it’s a call to action. We’re sitting with difficult truths, expose the harm of the past, and re-learn how our faith should push us to respond. Deconstruction and Juneteenth […]
- [Holy Habits // Sabbath](https://refuge.church/2025/06/18/holy-habits-sabbath/): Sabbath as Self-Care And its our fourth Holy Habit that closes out Part 1 of our Holy Habits series is Sabbath. Pastor Nicole called it “part 1” because this is the last holy habit that looks inward at loving ourselves. Sabbath isn’t just about stopping. It’s about a rhythm of life, and listening. Sabbath is about stopping and trusting that our worth doesn’t come from what we produce. We live in a time and culture that glorifies hustle. But Sabbath reminds us to say; “that’s enough for today!” Recap We’ve been learning that when Jesus said; “Love your neighbor as […]
- [Holy Habits // Silence & Solitude](https://refuge.church/2025/06/18/holy-habits-silence-solitude/): Silence & Solitude We live in a world constantly filled with noise. Scrolling, multitasking, and reacting. Silence and solitude often feel awkward – or even impossible! But the ancient practices of silence and solitude are vital for our mental, emotional, and spiritual health. At Refuge, we believe self-care is sacred. And this week we talk more about the Holy Habits of silence & solitude, and how they help us heal, grow, and connect with God. Self-Care is NOT Selfish! So many of us have been told to just power through. We’ve been conditioned to believe hustle is part of life […]
- [Holy Habits // Prayer](https://refuge.church/2025/06/04/the-holy-habit-of-prayer/): At Refuge, we’ve been walking with Jesus and watching how he practiced self-care. Last week, we slowed down enough to meditate. This week, we slow down enough to speak. This week’s message is about the Holy Habit of Prayer. Prayer is for All People. The holy habit of prayer isn’t only a Christian practice. It’s something humanity does across religions and cultures. Muslims pray five times a day to ground themselves. Jewish tradition has structured prayers that build community. Buddhists use prayer to cultivate mindfulness and compassion. And science backs it up! There are actual studies and bran scans that […]
- [Holy Habits // Meditation](https://refuge.church/2025/05/12/holy-habits-meditation/): Did Jesus Meditate? When we hear the word meditation, many of us might flinch. Maybe we think it’s too mystical or unfamiliar — or even unbiblical. But what if we’ve misunderstood it all along. In week two of our series, Holy Habits: The Sanctity of Self-Care, we explore meditation. Not as a trend, but as a transformative rhythm of Grace. A holy habit — a rhythm of grace. Self-Care IS NOT Selfish! At Refuge, we believe that caring for yourself isn’t selfish — it’s sacred. Jesus says the greatest commandments are: “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, […]
- [Holy Habits // Self Care](https://refuge.church/2025/05/05/holy-habits-self-care/): We Don’t Know How to Rest Let’s be real. Most of us don’t know how to rest well, let alone take care of ourselves in a meaningful way. We’ve been taught to hustle. We’ve been conditioned to believe that our worth is tied to our productivity. Even in church spaces, we’ve heard messages that elevate sacrifice and service but rarely speak about rest, healing, and boundaries. Because self-care is sacred. But this week at Refuge, we started a brand new series that flips that script: Holy Habits: The Sanctity of Self-care. Self-care Isn’t Selfish — It’s Sacred! Jesus never rushed. […]
- [QTNA // Holy Habits](https://refuge.church/2025/05/05/qtna-holy-habits/)
- [QTNA // The Gay QTNA](https://refuge.church/2025/04/30/qtna-the-gay-qtna/): This week at Refuge, we continued our QTNA (Questions That Need Answered) series with a question that deserves a thoughtful, grace-filled response. The Gay QTNA. This question directly challenges how some Christians have used the Bible to link homosexuality and sin, causing deep shame. So, instead of just giving a theological deep dive (though we love a good word study), we stepped back to talk about what the Bible really says about homosexuality and sin. For far too long, people have weaponized scripture to control others, enforce shame, and exclude LGBTQ+ people from God’s love. But here’s the truth: being gay is not […]
- [QTNA // O Prophets Where Art Thou?](https://refuge.church/2025/04/30/qtna-o-prophets-where-art-thou/)
- [QTNA // The B.I.B.L.E](https://refuge.church/2025/02/03/qtna-the-b-i-b-l-e/): The Bible is thousands and thousands of years old, its hard not to wonder about the accuracy of the Bible translations. The Bible has been rewritten and interpreted by different people throughout history, so how can we trust it? This week Pastor David explores the history of bible translations, how different version came to be, and why they matter today. Why Are There So Many Bible Translations? the Bible was originally written in Hebrew and Greek. To make it accessible, scholars translate it into different languages. But with so many versions, some people ask: Are Bible Translations Biased? One of […]
- [QTNA // Is God Listening?](https://refuge.church/2025/02/03/qtna-is-god-listening/): What is Prayer For? Why do we keep praying? What is it eve for? Is God listening? Prayer is not just about asking for things. It’s about connection and relationship. Isn’t it odd that the disciples asked Jesus to teach them pray, even though they already knew how to pray? It is because they saw something different in the way that He prayed. Jesus responded with a model prayer in Luke 11 and Matthew 6. He emphasized that prayers is not about a performance – it’s about presence! It’s about lifting up our souls to God. Corporate vs. Personal Prayer […]
- [QTNA // Good People. Bad Things](https://refuge.church/2025/01/17/qtna-good-people-bad-things/): Why do bad things happen to good people? It’s a question we’ve all wrestled with. When life feels unfair, it’s natural to ask, “Why me? Why this? Why God?” This week Pastor Nicole dove into one of the toughest questions humanity faces: Why does God let bad things happen to good people? And does God Punish? Spoiler Alert: These are not easy questions, and the answers are not simple! Jesus answers the QTNA Pastor Nicole walked us through how suffering is an inevitable part of life. In John 9:1-3, the disciples asked Jesus why a man was born blind. Was […]
- [QTNA // Ask, Seek, Knock](https://refuge.church/2025/01/06/ask-seek-knock/): New Year, New Series! Here at Refuge, we’re jumping into 2025 with the thought-provoking series QTNA // Question That Need Answered. Our members have submitted their biggest questions and we will spend the next several weeks exploring them together! But before we dive into the answers, Pastor Nicole walks us through why asking questions in faith is not only okay – its essential to our growth! Why Do Questions Matter? Questions are how we learn and grow! They challenge what we know and push us to go deeper. In Psalms 25:4-5, the Psalmist asks God to teach and guide them. […]
- [Acts of the Spirit // Bottle Episode:](https://refuge.church/2024/11/21/acts-of-the-spirit-bottle-episode-strength-in-smallness/): Big Dreams. Big Plans. It’s hard not to think that big equates to success. But success looks different to everybody. So, what if there’s actually strength in smallness. In this bottle episode, Pastor Nicole reminds us that smallness isn’t a weakness but a gift. A gift that allows us to focus on deep relationships, meaningful growth, and sacrificial love. Why Small Matters Jesus models smallness throughout his life and ministry. In Luke 15, Jesus teaches his disciples that it is better to leave the 99 to find the one lost sheep. He taught us that even the smallest moments, actions, […]
- [Acts of the Spirit // Gentleness](https://refuge.church/2024/11/21/acts-of-the-spirit-gentleness/): Gentleness can often be misunderstood. Many think it’s about weakness or avoiding confrontation. But true gentleness is far more powerful. Gentleness is strength under control. In her sermon on gentleness, Pastor Nicole teaches about this Christlike quality that doesn’t demand power but chooses to respond with humility and care — even when it is hard! Gentleness in Action In Acts 22, Paul demonstrates gentleness as strength in a powerful way. Paul had been falsely accused, beaten, and arrested, and he has ever reason to lash out. Instead, he shows restraint. Paul speaks to the angry crowd with respect, calling them […]
- [Acts of the Spirit // Patience](https://refuge.church/2024/11/20/acts-of-the-spirit-patience/): In this sermon from our Acts of the Spirit series, Pastor Nicole turns our focus to our Acts of Patience. More Than Waiting The biblical patience from Galatians is more than waiting in line or staying calm when your coffee order takes too long. It’s about how we respond to life’s challenges and injustices. In Galatians 5:22, Paul tells us that patience is a product of love – the ability to endure difficulties without letting anger or frustration control our actions. In Acts 21, Paul demonstrates this Christlike patience. When he’s falsely accused, beaten and arrested, Paul doesn’t lash out […]
- [Acts of the Spirit // Peacemaker](https://refuge.church/2024/10/23/acts-of-the-spirit-peacemaker/): What is Real Peace? When you think of peace, what comes to mind? A quiet moment? The absence of conflict? Maybe even a personal sense of calm? These are all great pictures of peace, but when we look at the Bible’s idea of peace, there is something deeper at play. Peace is more than just avoiding conflict, it’s about creating something new, as a peacemaker. The Peace That Paul Carried Looking at Acts 20, Paul didn’t just keep peace for himself. He made peace for others. Despite facing threats, hardships, and long journeys, Paul didn’t just stay calm for his […]
- [Acts of the Spirit // Restore Joy](https://refuge.church/2024/10/23/acts-of-the-spirit-restore-joy/): Feeling Joyless? You’re Not Alone Have you ever wondered why your life sometimes feels like its missing joy, even when you’re trying to live out your faith? In this week’s sermon, Pastor Brian tackles this question head-on. Diving into Romans 8 and Acts 19, he explores why our joy often feels elusive and how we can restore joy! Why Does Joy Leak? Despite being filled with God’s spirit, many of us struggle to maintain joy. Life can overwhelm us with fear and burnout. These “joy leaks” poke holes in our hearts, leaving us feeling drained. Whether it’s a strained relationship, […]
- [Acts of the Spirit // Love](https://refuge.church/2024/09/10/fruit-of-love/): This week Pastor Nicole started our NEW SERIES. We’ll be diving into the FRUITS of the Spirit in the book of Acts. Pastor Nicole started us of with the core FRUIT; LOVE! Love. It’s more important that a good feeling or even a kind gesture. It is the foundation of all the fruits of the Spirit. Everything we do as followers of Christ should be rooted in love. Love is not just one fruit of the spirit but it IS THE fruit of the Spirit. And everything else (joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, and self-control) is a by product […]
- [Y'all Means All // From the Head to the Heart](https://refuge.church/2024/09/03/criticalthinking/): We end our Y’all Means All series by answering this quesiton: Can faith and critical thinking coexist? If we read our bible through a critical lens, doesn’t that mean we’re criticizing the bible? In this weeks sermon Pastor Nicole takes us through the importance of critical thinking in faith! We’ll take a look at how engaging our minds is essential to deepening our understanding of Jesus, and living out our beliefs in meaningful ways. Exercise your thinking muscles with Wordle! Critical thinking and the Bible? A lot of times in faith, thinking critical in any matter is called blasphemous or […]
- [Y'all Means All // Conflict](https://refuge.church/2024/09/03/yall-means-all-conflict/): Conflict is inevitable. No matter where we are, we all encounter disagreements. But how do we, as a community of believers, hand conflict in a way that reflects Jesus. This is the question Pastor David tackles as he takes us through Acts 15. Conflict in the Early Church What was the big conflict in Acts 15? Should Gentile believers be required to follow the Jewish laws – including circumcision? The stakes were high, threatening to split the church into two groups. This wasn’t a simple disagreement over minor details – it was about defining what it meant to be a […]
- [Y'all Means All // Stranger things](https://refuge.church/2024/08/19/strange/): Have you ever found yourself in a strange place you never expected to be? Maybe you’ve looked back at your life and though: how did I get here? Was it coincidence, was it fate, or was it something bigger and stranger at work? This week Pastor Nicole explores this question through one of the bible’s stranger and underappreciated stories. Philip’s encounter with the Ethiopian eunuch in Acts 8. A Strange Encounter This story is more than just a strange encounter on a deserted road. It’s a powerful lesson in faith, obedience, and inclusivity. What makes this story even more compelling […]
- [Y'all Means All // I Would Walk 500-Miles...](https://refuge.church/2024/08/12/journey-500-miles/): Our new series “Y’all Means All,” its all about embracing the call to inclusive love, and taking our journey beyond mere tolerance to a place where everyone feels welcomed, valued, and loved! Last Week The challenge from last week was to ask ourselves: am I tolerant or am I inclusive? We looked at how profoundly different they really are. There is a major difference in passively accepting others and actively working to make sure everyone is embraced. It is a powerful reminder that our faith calls us to more than just getting along and enduring one another! we are called […]
- [Y'all Means All // Tolerance vs. Inclusion](https://refuge.church/2024/08/05/yall-means-all-tolerance-vs-inclusion/): We are moving right along in our summer of series! This week Pastor Nicole kicked off our new series: “Y’all Means All!“ Over the next few weeks we’re going to be looking at the apostles’ ACTS of inclusivity. So, to get us rolling Pastor Nicole goes on a deep dive and exploring the differences between tolerance and inclusion. It’s an easy thing to say we welcome all y’all, but what does it really mean? Are we truly creating spaces where all people feel valued, or just tolerated? Tolerance The big question this week is: am I inclusive, or am I […]
- [Upstart Apostles // Transforming Together](https://refuge.church/2024/07/29/upstarttransformation/): This we Pastor David wrapped up our Upstart Apostles Series! David looks at the transformation of one of the most pivotal upstart apostles of the early church; SAUL! Saul’s story stands as a reminder that no one is beyond the reach of God’s love! From Darkness… If we thought long enough and hard enough, we all could probably come up with someone we think may never come to know Jesus. We might believe their hearts are too hard, they’re too far gone, or they’re too deep into the dark side.. People like Darth Vader, Severus Snape, Thanos, Loki… even the […]
- [Upstart Apostles // Innovation](https://refuge.church/2024/07/22/innovation/): We continue to explore how the Apostles of Acts upstarted the church. The followed the bold vision through adversity and persecution, using innovation and creativity to meet people where the were. They were men and women filled with the Holy Spirit, spreading the good news of Jesus’ love, mercy, and justice. Recap Two weeks ago we met a man named Stephen. Stephen was a man full of the Holy Spirit and he was appointed to help run the soup kitchen. Last week, Pastor David told us Stephen’s story, from deconstruction to execution. This week we learned how dangerous it became […]
- [Upstart Apostles // Resilience in Adversity](https://refuge.church/2024/07/15/resilience/): This week Pastor David takes us through a familiar story with fresh eyes. Stephen’s name might ring a bell for some. Known as the first Christian martyr, is story often stops at his tragic death. However, there is so much more to Stephen than meets the eye. Pastor David pushes us beyond the close-up of Stephen’s martyrdom to reveal a bigger more beautiful picture. His story is a testament to resilience in the face of adversity. Guess the Picture Have you ever played this game? Where all you see is a very zoomed in part of a picture. Sometimes you […]
- [Upstart Apostles // Visionary Leadership](https://refuge.church/2024/07/08/upstart-leadership/): We are continuing our SUMMER OF SERIES with our NEW SERIES: Upstart Apostles. We get our inspiration for this series from Acts 4:1 of the MSG translation where the early followers of Jesus are labeled “Upstart Apostles.” This term encapsulates their trailblazing spirit! The apostles were starting something new, facing challenges, and yet their faith and resilience pushed them forward. The Heart of Upstart Apostles The early followers of Jesus were true pioneers. They started from scratch, driven by a bold idea, and their love for Jesus. They faced skepticism and opposition. However, their deep faith and reliance on the […]
- [Act B.C. // Meetings, Prison Breaks, & Fads! Oh My!](https://refuge.church/2024/07/01/fad/): Pastor David wraps up our Acts B.C. series with a powerful message about the strength of the early church. Pastor David takes a trip down memory lane reminding us of some terrible fads we suffered through. Remember water beds, planking, blond tips for guys? Well your favorite pastor does! Fads come and go, with the classic saying: “it’s just a phase!” Meeting after Meeting… Have you ever sat through a meeting and though; “this could have been an email?” As David dives into this weeks story he explains how each failed attempt to stop the apostles started with a meeting! […]
- [Juneteenth // A Night Of Reflection](https://refuge.church/2024/06/24/juneteenth-service/): On Saturday, June 22nd, Refuge hosted out FIRST service in honor of Juneteenth. Juneteenth commemorates the emancipation of enslaved African Americans. This service is a significant step forward in truly being a safe place for ALL PEOPLE to be unapologetically themselves! We want to be a place that allows people to embrace all the unique facets that makes them who they are. Special Guest // Shari Armstrong. We were honored to be able to hear from Shari Armstrong, an amazing journalist from Fox 4. Shari shared her experiences as a black professional in SWFL. Sharing a deep perspective on the […]
- [Acts B.C. // Boldness](https://refuge.church/2024/06/24/boldness-acts-b-c/): Acts 4 This week Pastor David tackles the theme of courage and boldness. In Acts 4:23-31 we read of profound courage within the early church. This is an encouragement we need today more than ever! Peter and John are once again center stage. After being threated by religious leaders, the don’t cower or run. Instead, they pray for boldness to continue to ACT like Jesus and preach the Good News of Jesus. Prayer for Boldness This story from Acts reminds us that the early church did not complicate their faith with rituals. Instead, the trusted the simple ACT of prayer. […]
- [Juneteenth Block Party!](https://refuge.church/2024/06/13/juneteenth/): Refuge Church invites the community to their Juneteenth Block Party on June 22nd to honor the history and resilience of the Black community. It commemorates the end of slavery on June 19, 1865, and aims to recognize the ongoing struggle against racism. The event includes a 3-point tournament, a free raffle, a food truck, and a special guest speaker, emphasizing unity and support for equality.
- [Acts B.C. // Act Like Jesus](https://refuge.church/2024/06/11/humanity-actlikejesus/): Pastor Nicole keeps our summer of series moving forward as she dives into Acts 4. The story of the church moves forward with the aftermath of the apostles healing the paralyzed man. Last week, we learned how Peter and John healed a man paralyzed from birth. Beyond the miraculous, we see the impact of being seen. Peter and John honor the man’s humanity after a lifetime of marginalization. This week we pick up the story with Peter and John’s arrest. The apostles are boldly preaching a message that unsettles the religious. They proclaim the resurrected Jesus is the messiah – […]
- [Gay Pastor Expelled From Seminary](https://refuge.church/2024/06/06/expelled-pastor/): My name is Nicole, and I am one of the pastors at Refuge. I earned a BA in Biblical and Theological Studies and enrolled in a master’s program at Pentecostal Theological Seminary to become a mental health counselor.Unfortunately, the seminary expelled me in January 2024. I had completed the fall semester and was preparing to start the spring. My goal was to be a mental health counselor, not a minister. I sought a Christian education to support this career. The Story In a capstone paper, I proudly identified as a member of the LGBTQ+ community and discussed how it impacted […]
- [Acts B.C. // You Are Seen](https://refuge.church/2024/06/03/you-are-seen/): We continue to explore the beginnings of the early church and the transformative power of the Holy Spirit. So, this week Pastor Davide tells the moving story from Acts 3. The ACTS of Peter and John healing a man who had been lame from birth. In a fresh take on a well known story, Pastor David challenges us to reflect on our own greatest need. This miraculous ACT serves as a reminder that God is ready and able to meet our greatest need. Pastor David speaks to our hearts the truth that; “You Are Seen.” Look At Us // You […]
- [Acts B.C. // What to Expect...](https://refuge.church/2024/05/30/expectancy/): This week we learn about what to expect when we’re expecting! Pastor Nicole brings to life the Day of Pentecost from Acts 2. In this sermon on expectancy, pastor Nicole emphasizes the importance of living with a mindset rooted in faith and active anticipation of God’s promises. What kid of packer are you? With summer right around the corner lots of folks are preparing for vacations and relaxations. When you get ready for a trip, are you meticulous planner or a last minute packer? (pastor Nicole is that latter.) Neither is more right than the other, because they both are […]
- [Acts B.C. // Previously On...](https://refuge.church/2024/05/20/acts-b-c-previously-on/): Summer is right around the corner, an we’re kicking of a Summer of Series at Refuge. We will be journeying through the book of Acts from start to finish! One series at a time exploring it’s themes and telling its stories. Most importantly we’ll be learning from the first Church of Misfits lessons that resonate with our Church of Misfits here at Refuge. Our first Sumer Series is titled “Acts B.C. Before the Church.” Over the next few weeks we’ll be looking at how the Holy Spirit was working in and through the apostles before the church even began. Previously […]
- [CYS // Choose Your Suffering Part II](https://refuge.church/2024/05/13/cys-choose-your-suffering-part-ii/)
- [CYS // Choose Your Suffering Part I](https://refuge.church/2024/05/06/choose-your-suffering-part-1/): Are you feeling stuck in life’s struggles? Overwhelmed by challenges thrust upon you? Pastor Brian’s NEW mini-series; “Choose Your Suffering,” explores the idea of embracing hardships on our journey to find purpose and meaning. In this challenging message, Pastor Brian unveils his new favorite acronym – CYS. CYS (Choose Your Suffering) is perspective shift that challenges us to self-reflect and reconsider how we tackle the inevitable difficulties of life. Suffering // Painful or Powerful? Surprisingly suffering can either be painful or powerful. Thus, the way we view our struggles hinges on whether we’ve chosen it or it’s been forced on […]
- [The Barbie Movie // Finale](https://refuge.church/2024/05/01/transform-the-barbie-movie-finale/): This week Pastor Nicole wrapped up The Barbie Movie series by showing us how much Barbie and Nicodemus have in common! We’ve been diving deep into the realms of deconstruction and restoration. And how this never ending process is supposed to transform us. In a world hungry for authenticity Barbie and Nicodemus take us on an exciting journey to spiritual transformation. Did you ever think that a doll and a pharisee could have anything in common? An Unexpected Encounter // In a climactic moment of The Barbie Movie, Barbie accidentally stumbles upon a woman working alone at her kitchen table. […]
- [The Barbie Movie // Advocate Barbie](https://refuge.church/2024/04/22/advocatebarbie/): Welcome to week two of our FUN-conventional series centered around The Barbie Movie. Yes, yes, I know! You’ve heard all the things about Barbie! But stick with us, because this journey is about so much more than what meets the eye! We started to peel back the layers last week, finding the bigger theme of The Barbie Movie. When we put away our preconceived ideas about it, we can start to see the profound theme that resonates through this movie. We will face challenges, transformations, existential crises, and through it all we are never done becoming. This week we look […]
- [The Barbie Movie // Deconstruction Barbie](https://refuge.church/2024/04/15/barbie/): The Barbie Movie Follows stereotypical Barbie, who lives a seemingly perfect life alongside other Barbies and Kens in Barbie Land. In this world the Barbies have to prestigious careers, like doctors, lawyers, professors, teachers, and politicians… and the Kens they mostly hang out on the beach, considering beaching their profession. One night at a dance party, barbie starts to worry about getting old, she’s having dark and depressive thoughts. Wondering about death and dying. When she wakes up the next morning she has bad breath, cellulite, and flat feet. This sends Barbie into an existential crisis cause her question everything […]
- [Before & After // Peter](https://refuge.church/2024/04/08/peterbeforeandafter/): This week Pastor Davide wraps up his Before & After series by taking us on a journey through (of all things) The Lion King! Pastor David uses his favorite move to explore the before and after stories of one of the most beloved disciples, Peter. You might not think Peter has much in common with Simba, but Pastor David does a great job at proving us all wrong. He weaves together the stories of Simba and Peter, while also inviting us to reflect on our own journey of faith. Peter’s relationship with Jesus had its ups and downs. Once declaring […]
- [Before & After // Easter](https://refuge.church/2024/04/07/easterbeforeandafter/): Happy Easter! This year Pastor David dives into the significance of Easter. He unravels a beautiful message of the cross and the resurrection of Jesus Christ. From his personal stories to biblical passages, Pastor David creates a safe place to explore the real power of the Easter story! He takes on a vivid journey of the crucifixion. Through all the events leading up to Jesus’ ultimate sacrifice. David describes the cruelty and agony Jesus endured on the cross. Painting a picture of the not only the physical suffering, but the spiritual suffering Jesus took on for ALL PEOPLE! But just […]
- [Losing My Religion // Part 2](https://refuge.church/2024/03/25/losingmyreligion2/): We live in a world where the darkest chapters of history and even our personal lives have shaped or worsened by religion. And so, Pastor Brian wraps up our “Losing My Religion“ series with a BOGO sermon! Time and time again Jesus challenges religious norms and offers a way with genuine faith, love, and inclusion. So, Pastor Brian encourages us to question the devices that drive us to judge, exclude, and prioritize rituals over compassion. True Religion is about caring for the oppressed, embodying grace, and doing the work to heal and restore the here and now! It’s easy to […]
- [Losing My Religion // Part 1](https://refuge.church/2024/03/18/losingmyreligion1/): So often in the middle of our spiritual journeys a pivotal moment that calls us to sift through to relics of tradition and find the essence of truth faith. As we get closer to Easter, Pastor Brian is taking us on a reflective journey in a series he’s calling “Losing My Religion.” According to Pastor Brian he’s been writing this message for the last seven years. He feels as though this series is the culmination of his life in ministry. In this message, Brian challenges the notions that have dramatically divided us through history. Religion has often been the root […]
- [Lent // Almsgiving](https://refuge.church/2024/03/04/almsgiving/): This week we wrapped our Lent series as we explored the theme of Almsgiving. If you’ve been following along with us, you know that we’ve hit prayer and fasting. If you did catch either Pastor David or Pastor Brian’s messages, CATCH UP HERE! The insights David and Brian shared were both moving and challenging! This week we traveled into territory that’s less known than the other themes of Lent. Almsgiving, not a word that makes its way into our every day conversations. As Christians, though, the sentiment behind almsgiving should always be evident. Almsgiving is deeply rooted in love, compassion, […]
- [Lent // Fasting](https://refuge.church/2024/02/26/fasting/): We continue to reflect on the Lenten season, as Pastor Brian takes into a deeper understanding of fasting. Jesus taught us in Matthew 6 that fasting, prayer, and almsgiving were not “IFs,” but “WHENs.” These practices are not just Christian rituals, but they are pathways to deeper and more intimate relationships with God. Jesus tried to make it clear that these are not public displays, but private devotions. Are you practicing Lent with your Refuge.Family? Pastor Brian shared that he’s limiting himself to ONE cup of coffee per day. Pastor Nicole deleted all the time wasting games off of her […]
- [Lent // Prayer](https://refuge.church/2024/02/20/prayer-lent/): Our journey through Lent continues as Pastor David takes us on an exploration of prayer. There are over 650 prayers mentioned in the bible. 25 of those are instances where Jesus prayer. The apostle Paul discusses prayer 41 times in his epistles. But does it still have the transformative power in 2024 as it did all those thousands of years ago. Pastor David shares pretty interesting findings from the book “How God Changes Your Brain.“ Findings that show prayer not only enhances our brain’s neural functioning but also aids in our mental and physical health. Proving that long-term engagement with […]
- [Lent // What is it?](https://refuge.church/2024/02/12/lent-fasting-prayer/): We begin a new series! Welcome to the first week of Lent. For the next 3 weeks we will be exploring the three main practices of Lent; prayer, fasting, and almsgiving. For those who didn’t grow up following the liturgical church calendar, lent probably sounds as weird to you as spring cleaning. But there’s more to it than meets the eye. It’s not just about giving up coffee or social media. Its about deep spiritual renewal. To truly put into practice what it means to have Jesus at the center of our lives. Eyes fixed on Him! Our journey through […]
- [Refocus // Financial Health](https://refuge.church/2024/02/05/financial-health-refocus/): In our final week of our Refocus series, Pastor Brian tackles a big one: Financial Health. Through this series we’ve looked at what it means to shift our focus from resolutions to intentions. All series long we’ve talking about intentional living. In this message, pastor Brian challenges us once again to shift that perspective when it comes to our financial health. Hebrews 12:1-2 emphasizes the importance of fixing our eyes on Jesus in every aspect of our lives. Whether its our physical health, mental health, our relationships, or our finances. Even our financial choices are a reflection of our values […]
- [Refocus // Relationships](https://refuge.church/2024/01/31/relationships-refocus/): This week we explored the significance of relationships in our latest sermon in our Refocus series! Pastor Nicole dives into the important role of relationships in our lives. And how fixing our eyes on Jesus can guide us in building meaningful and healthy connections. PIVOT!!! Are you fan of “Friends?” No? That’s okay! Do you have friends in your life who would help you carry a couch up 4 flights of stairs? A you that kind of friend? None of us are perfect. But we follow the One who is. And in this message we see how Jesus embodies the […]
- [Refocus // Mental Health](https://refuge.church/2024/01/25/mental-health/): In this inspiring installment of our “Refocus” series, Nicole guides us through a thought-provoking exploration of integrating mental health with our spiritual journey. Titled “Fixing Our Eyes on Jesus,” this sermon invites you to consider how our daily intentions, actions, and struggles can align more closely with the teachings and example of Jesus. Learn practical insights on how mental health, often viewed through a modern lens, can actually draw rich lessons from Jesus’ life. Nicole skillfully connects the dots between Jesus’ practices of solitude, prayer, and mindfulness, demonstrating their timeless relevance to our current challenges. Refocusing on our mental health […]
- [Refocus // Physical Health](https://refuge.church/2024/01/16/refocus-physical-health/): As we keep moving forward into this New Year, we’re setting our intentions and fixing our eyes on Jesus. Most of us seek to improve both physically and spiritually. In this message Pastor David offers a refreshing perspective that bridges the gap between our physical health and our spiritual journey. This is not your typical resolution talk. Instead Pastor David invites us to look deeper — beyond the superficial aspects of diet and exercise into how our bodies can align with our spiritual growth. Drawing from past experience, Pastor David opens up about his own health challenges. He talks about […]
- [Refocus // New Years Resolutions](https://refuge.church/2024/01/08/new-year-resolutions-refocus/): It’s a new year! We made it! We’ve arrived in 2024 with 365 days and 8,760 hours of possibilities. Most of us will even make a new year resolution! A big problem with resolution is that they have a high failure rate. We set out to lose weight, save money, read more, etc… then get to the end of the year feeling unaccomplished. New year resolutions are not inherently bad. It’s good to want to improve and better yourself. But what is the central focus of a resolution?… ourselves! This year Refuge is starting the new year with a new […]
- [Christmas Eve Eve](https://refuge.church/2023/12/28/christmas-eve-eve-peace/): We have finally made it to our Christmas Eve Eve Service. We have been slowly journeying through Advent this year. This has been a different experience for us here at Refuge, but we’ve slowed down and reflected on Love, Hope, Joy, and Peace that we get to experience in the anticipated arrival of the messiah. This Christmas Eve (Eve) we reflect on the Prince of Peace that Isaiah prophesies about. He’s talking about the arrival of the long awaited messiah. The Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Price of Peace. We know that the children of Israel were waiting […]
- [Advent // Joy](https://refuge.church/2023/12/20/joy-advent-christmas-refuge/): In a world often overshadowed by uncertainty and challenges, finding joy can seem like a distant dream. However, a recent sermon on joy, set against the backdrop of the Advent season, offers a refreshing perspective on how we can rediscover and embrace joy in our lives. Advent, a four-week period leading up to Christmas, is traditionally a time of preparation and reflection. It symbolizes the anticipation of Jesus’ birth and the hope for His return. This week we revisit the themes of love and hope and how their collision brings about true joy to the world. This week we explored […]
- [Advent // Hope](https://refuge.church/2023/12/11/advent-hope-christmas-refuge/): This week we continue our journey expectant waiting, as we reflect on HOPE! Pastor Brian dives into the heart of the Advent season, as we anticipate and prepare for the celebration of Jesus’ birth. Understanding the bible is like a puzzle. Patience is required to put the pieces together and see the bigger picture. Brian shows the importance of seeing the bigger picture of God’s story. Brian walks us through stories from the Old Testament. This journey shows us that they are not just ancient tales but integral pieces of the grand puzzle that point us to Jesus. From the […]
- [Advent // Love](https://refuge.church/2023/12/04/love-advent-season-refuge/): As we officially begin our countdown to Christmas at Refuge, we’re excited to launch an Advent series focused on rediscovering and celebrating the core values of this sacred season. The first theme we’re exploring is Love, a fundamental aspect of the Christmas story and our faith. This year, we start our Advent journey with Love, not just as a sentiment, but as a transformative force that redefines our interactions and existence. Love, as exemplified by the birth and life of Jesus, is about selflessness, sacrifice, and a deep commitment to the wellbeing of others. It’s a love that challenges us […]
- [Thank You God // In The Waiting](https://refuge.church/2023/11/20/thank-you-god-in-the-waiting/): This week we finished our series, “Thank You God!” In this sermon series we’ve been uncovering the profound beauty of gratitude in all seasons of life — in chaos, harvest, and waiting. Life is unpredictable! It so often takes us through a whirlwind of emotions and experiences. Sometime we look around and find ourselves in the middle of Chaos and everything seems out of our control. It’s in these moments that finding things to be thankful for can be challenging. Yet, in these moments gratitude can be transformative. God is in the chaos. Then there are times of waiting, where […]
- [Thank You God // In The Harvest](https://refuge.church/2023/11/13/gratitude-in-the-harvest/): In the second part of our “Thank You God…” series, we dive deeper into the spiritual practice of gratitude, as we say Thank You God In The Harvest! Last Week, we were reminded to say Thank You God, amidst the chaos of life.. We reflected on the value of thankfulness in even the worst of times. This week, we shift our focus to the abundance of blessings that God generously pours out. Thank You God In The Harvest! The idea of harvest goes beyond agricultural planting and reaping. We can se the harvest in a variety of ways. If you […]
- [Thank You God // In Chaos](https://refuge.church/2023/11/06/in-chaos-thank-you-god/): As we approach the Thanksgiving season It’s time to step into a space of reflection. This week Brian kicks of our NEW SERIES: Thank You God. In his message, Brian invites us all on a journey to discover the power of gratitude. Especially when life seems to be a series of unending challenges // In Chaos! “Thank You God — In Chaos” is the title of this week’s message. Brian invites us to anchor ourselves in the belief that even in chaos, there are reasons to be grateful. Through his inspiring words, you’ll discover how gratitude can serve as your […]
- [Jonah // Unanswered Unended](https://refuge.church/2023/10/30/unanswered-unended-questions-god-refuge-church/): In a world filled with unsolved mysteries, unanswered questions, and unended stories, the book of Jonah offers us a unique perspective of a story ending without any real closure. This week we finish our journey through Jonah as Nicole sheds some light on the DEEP meaning this unanswered unended story holds for us modern day readers. The book of Jonah challenges the human need for closure, often leaving it’s readers with more questions than answers. Jonah is real person grappling with complex emotions and struggles. Throughout this series we’ve seen his disobedience, his separation from God, his experience with grace, […]
- [Jonah // Grace in the Deep](https://refuge.church/2023/10/16/grace-in-the-deep-jonah-redemption/): Have you ever found yourself running from God, trying to escape his presence? In this week’s message, Nicole walks us through a though-provoking perspective on the story of Jonah, highlighting the deeper message of grace, mercy, and redemption found within this familiar tale. Nicole uses humor to remind us that his story is not just about a man, a boat, a storm, or a fish — but of finding God’s grace in the deep. In this message we explore the idea that Jonah’s encounter with the fish may not have been as immediate as we’ve been taught or believed. What […]
- [Jonah // Prodigal Prophet](https://refuge.church/2023/10/09/prodigal-prophet-jonah-sermon/): Prepare for an exciting spiritual adventure like no other as we launch our latest sermon series on the book of Jonah. This captivating series promises to be a thought-provoking, laughter-filled, and deeply meaningful exploration of this well-known biblical tale. This week: Jonah // The Prodigal Prophet, takes the age-old story of Jonah and gives it a modern twist. Through humor and satire, we’ll breathe new life into the ancient narrative, inviting you to laugh, reflect, and see Jonah’s experiences in a whole new light. If you’re a fan of humor and satire, you’re in for a treat. This week Brian […]
- [Nehemiah // Deep Church](https://refuge.church/2023/10/02/deep-church-nehemiah-building-sermon/): This week we finished our series in Nehemiah. We’ve walked through an inspiring journey of rebuilding, reestablishing, and uniting as a community. Our teaching team has lead us through the challenges and triumphs of Nehemiah’s story, and illustrating the timeless wisdom it holds. In her message, Nicole discusses the importance of being committed and connected to a deep church. A church that connects deeply with Jesus, and deeply with one another. We explored the significance of building a foundation of faith, finding echoes of our own experiences in Nehemiah’s determination and unity. Together, we discovered how faith can lead us […]
- [Nehemiah // Unity](https://refuge.church/2023/09/25/power-of-unity-nehemiah-sermon/): Discover the power of unity in this week’s journey through Nehemiah’s story! This week we explore the theme of unity and it’s transformative impact in the face of adversity. In his message, David shares personal experiences on how tragic events can bring people together, transcending differences. He teaches on valuable lessons on understanding biblical unity and its significance in building a strong and united church. Let us come together as a community and find strength in Christ’s unfailing love, as we mediate on this compelling message love for one another as disciples of Jesus! Follow Along HERE!
- [Nehemiah // But We Prayed](https://refuge.church/2023/09/18/transformative-power-of-prayer-nehemiah/): This week we unlock the power of prayer and take a bigger look at Nehemiah’s story. Journeying through the entire book of Nehemiah we’ll look at crucial moments when Nehemiah and his community turned to prayer. Join us as we rediscover timeless lessons. We dive into the powerful prayers found throughout Nehemiah’s story. Nehemiah’s faith, determination, and unwavering devotion led Nehemiah and his community to over come adversity while unlocking the power of prayer. This week, Pastor Brian ends our service with a time of corporate prayer. Be prepared as he walks us through applying Nehemiah’s prayers to our own […]
- [Nehemiah // Right Place. Right Time](https://refuge.church/2023/09/05/nehemiah-right-place-right-time/): Last week we ended on a cliffhanger, this week we’ll see the captivating story of God unfold. How he orchestrates the placement of His people in just the right place at the right time. Nehemiah’s story beautifully illustrates how each of us is a vital thread in the tapestry of God’s grand plan. Connect With Us! Follow along with this weeks scripture. CLICK HERE
- [The Benefits of Regularly Attending Contemporary Church](https://refuge.church/2023/08/28/benefits-of-regularly-attending-contemporary-church/): It might be difficult to find a feeling of community and spirituality in today’s fast-paced society. Regular attendance at a Contemporary church is one custom that has persisted in relevance and importance, though. Although the idea of the church has changed to reflect modern culture, the advantages of this long-standing custom are unwavering.  According to the study after accounting for factors it was found that women who regularly attended services had a significantly lower risk of death, from despair by 68% compared to those who never attended. Similarly, men who attended services at once a week had a 33% risk […]
- [Nehemiah // Jesus & Nehemiah](https://refuge.church/2023/08/28/nehemiah-jesus-nehemiah/): Welcome to week 1 of our series through the story of Nehemiah. Nehemiah is a story of FAITH IN ACTION! From the physical reconstruction of walls to the spiritual rebuilding of our souls, we’ll uncover how these narratives intertwine to shape our past, define our present, and guide our future. Join us as we explore the parallels between Jesus & Nehemiah. Just as Nehemiah rebuilds and restores the physical walls of Jerusalem, so Jesus came to rebuild and restore a fractured relationship between us and God.
- [Seven Years Later// I Am Enough](https://refuge.church/2023/08/21/seven-years-later-i-am-enough/): Refuge celebrates 7 years in ministry. In this message “I Am Enough” we journey through Palms 139, the Garden of Eden, the desert where Jesus encountered the woman at the well, and even BarbieLand! Whether you’ve felt the weight of self doubt, struggled with the world’s expectations, or simply seek encouragement and admiration, this message is for you! Join in our time of worship as you hear our pastor’s heart felt words that remind us of our inherent value, our purpose, and the unshakeable truth that we are enough!
- [Jesus Walks on Water // Part 2](https://refuge.church/2023/08/21/jesus-walks-on-water-part-2/): When Jesus walks on water, often we focus on the Sunday School version where Peter becomes the hero by stepping out in faith to walk on water, while the other disciples hesitate and stay in the boat. But there’s so much more to uncover if we dig deeper. Join us take a closer look at each character in this story and the unique roles they played. By the end we’ll discover that this story isn’t just about Peter’s faith, but it’s a mirror reflecting different aspects of our own lives.
- [Jesus Walks on Water // Part 1](https://refuge.church/2023/08/08/jesus-walks-on-water-part-1/): “How do we know any of this is even true?” Step into the extraordinary world of faith and wonder as we delve into one of the most iconic moments in history – the astonishing tale of Jesus walking on water. Delve into the heart of this age-old narrative, exploring both its authenticity and its profound significance. Discover how scholars and theologians have examined the accounts, drawing connections to the cultural context of the time, geographical nuances, and the oral traditions that carried the story through generations. Unveil the extraordinary, question the limits of possibility, and embrace the enduring power of […]
- [Jesus Heals A Paralyzed man // Part 2](https://refuge.church/2023/08/08/jesus-heals-a-paralyzed-man-part-2/): In a world where barriers seem to separate us, this tale of friendship and unwavering faith reminds us that we, too, have the capacity to break down walls and ensure that all people have access to the boundless love of Jesus. In another take on the story from last week, we will dive deeper into the extraordinary act of love and compassion that serves as a powerful metaphor for how we can approach life and our faith community. Together, we can rip through the barriers that limit people from experiencing the all-encompassing love and grace of our Lord. Let this […]
- [Five Key Reasons Why A Church Feels Like A Second Home ](https://refuge.church/2023/07/29/five-key-reasons-why-a-church-feels-like-a-second-home/): For many individuals, attending church goes beyond religious rituals and traditions. It becomes a profound experience that fosters a sense of belonging and community- making the church feel like a second home. In this article, we explore five key reasons why a progressive church can evoke such deep emotions and create a sanctuary where people find solace. A welcoming community: Within the walls of a non-denominational church, individuals often find acceptance and a sense of belonging. In a world that can sometimes feel cold, the church community provides a safe haven where people can gather and form meaningful relationships. The […]
- [Jesus Heals a Paralyzed Man // Part 1](https://refuge.church/2023/07/24/the-synoptic-gospels-jesus-heals-a-paralyzed-man-in-mark/): We continue to delve into the good news of The Synoptic Gospels. This week we look at Jesus’ encounter with a paralyzed man in the book of Mark. What if God granted you your deepest desire? That one thing that you believe would cure all your dissatisfaction? There is a profound dissatisfaction within our souls, that must be dealt with if we ever hope to experience peace. But how do we cure this longing within us? Find out this Saturday as we look encounter Jesus, a paralyzed man, and his crazy friends in the book of Mark! “The hardness of […]
- [The Temptation of Jesus // Part 2](https://refuge.church/2023/07/17/the-synoptic-gospels-the-temptation-of-jesus-part-2/): Tune in to our exciting new series on the Synoptic Gospels, where we dive into the Temptation of Jesus from the unique perspective of the Gospel of Matthew. Join us as we unveil the depths of Matthew’s Gospel. Discover the challenges faced by Jesus and the invaluable lessons we can learn from His unwavering faith. Follow along with our text this week // Matthew 4:1-11
- [The Temptation of Jesus // Part 1](https://refuge.church/2023/07/10/the-synoptic-gospels-the-temptation-of-jesus/): Join us as we start an incredible new series diving into the Synoptic Gospels! In this series, we will examine the diverse perspectives of each gospel writer—Matthew, Mark, and Luke—as they unveil the remarkable life and ministry of Jesus! Together, we will uncover the depths of Jesus’ love and gain a deeper understanding of His purpose and mission on Earth.

## Pages

- [Co-build Refuge](https://refuge.church/give/): Our Giving Philosophy At Refuge, we believe giving is an act of worship — not an obligation. Our philosophy is simple: do what you can, when you can. We take our lead from 2 Corinthians, where Paul says, “The gift is acceptable according to what one has, not according to what one does not have” (2 Cor. 8:12), and “Each of you should give what you’ve decided in your heart to give… for God loves a cheerful giver” (2 Cor. 9:7). We all go through seasons of abundance and seasons of needs, and that is okay. We simply invite you to donate as you’re […]
- [Blog](https://refuge.church/blog/)
- [Home](https://refuge.church/)
- [Home](https://refuge.church/home2/)
- [test-16-3](https://refuge.church/test-16-3/)
- [Privacy Policy](https://refuge.church/privacy-policy/): Who we are Our website address is: https://refuge.church. Comments When visitors leave comments on the site we collect the data shown in the comments form, and also the visitor’s IP address and browser user agent string to help spam detection. An anonymized string created from your email address (also called a hash) may be provided to the Gravatar service to see if you are using it. The Gravatar service privacy policy is available here: https://automattic.com/privacy/. After approval of your comment, your profile picture is visible to the public in the context of your comment. Media If you upload images to […]
- [Hurricane Ian Financial Assistance](https://refuge.church/ian/): Please complete this form to be considered for financial assistance from Hurricane Ian.  This is open to all active members of Refuge.Church and the SWFL community at large.   Your request should be due to a direct impact by Ian (loss of work, loss of income, loss of housing, additional expenses, etc). Your request will be forward to a small committee. Expect a response in 24-48 hours. Please note, in addition to this resource we also have food and other supplies available. Those items are available for pick up during our Saturday night church services, during weekly recovery meetings, and […]
- [David Thomas](https://refuge.church/ministry-team/david-thomas/)
- [Baptism Event](https://refuge.church/8761-2/)
- [Get Baptized](https://refuge.church/baptism/)
- [Egalitarian Church Fort Myers](https://refuge.church/frequently-asked-questions/egalitarian-church-fort-myers/): Refuge.Church is an egalitarian church located in Fort Myers, FL. Though neither the word “complementarian” nor “egalitarian” are found in the Bible, they can be a common topic of Christian debate. We believe that men and women are of equal worth and value (a belief shared with ALL brothers and sisters of Christ). As egalitarian, we go a step further in that we believe that men and women are equal in role capabilities as well; that there are no gender restrictions on what roles men and women can fulfill in the church, home, and society. At Refuge both men and women […]
- [Fort Myers Progressive Church](https://refuge.church/frequently-asked-questions/fort-myers-progressive-church/): Refuge.Church was founded in 2016 with a simple guiding principle: no rules but the gospel. We are a non-denominational church that welcomes everyone and believes that all may use their gifts to serve and minister to the body of Christ. Because of this reckless extension of grace, we have been labeled by some as a progressive church. We do not believe that the Bible is evolving or progressing, as progressive churches would claim. However, we do not view the Bible as an encyclopedia or a rule book, as fundamentalist churches would claim Progressive Christianity is defined by a willingness to […]
- [Frequently Asked Questions](https://refuge.church/frequently-asked-questions/)
- [The Gay Question](https://refuge.church/frequently-asked-questions/the-gay-question/): What is your churches stance on “the gay question”?  In other words … Are you LGBTQ affirming?  Do you perform gay marriages?  Do you consider homosexuality a sin? Is this a church where I can belong and find a home? Our name answers the question best.  We are a REFUGE.  We are a safe place for ALL people (and we mean it). The message of love and compassion is at the core of the life and ministry of Jesus.  That is why it’s so disheartening that many of our gay brothers and sisters have become the punching bag for many […]
- [Nicole Earp](https://refuge.church/ministry-team/nicoleearp/)
- [Membership Commitment](https://refuge.church/misfit/)
- [Refuge.Church Weekly Live Stream](https://refuge.church/livestream/): Each Saturday at 5:30pm we will be streaming LIVE from our Facebook Public Page. If you don’t have a Facebook account, you may view the recording a few hours delayed on our YouTube channel.
- [Recovery Resources](https://refuge.church/recovery/)
- [Client Forms](https://refuge.church/new-client-forms/): Please download the forms below and bring completed to your first scheduled Appointment.
- [Our Culture](https://refuge.church/featured-pages/the-vision/)
- [Front Page Template](https://refuge.church/home/)
- [What to Expect](https://refuge.church/featured-pages/gatherings/): Many who walk through our doors do so with trepidation. We’ve all been there. Just be YOU and you’ll fit right in. You’ll find those who have all but given up on church. You’ll find those who know what it’s like to deconstruct. You’ll find those who have been in a church their entire lives, and those stepping through the doors of a church for the first time.
- [Teaching & Music](https://refuge.church/featured-pages/worship/): Refuge has been blessed with a teaching and worship TEAM. No single person being the focus so that the focus is Jesus. Through music and teaching you will be reminded that you are a child of God; that you have been saved by His grace; that you have been called to do good works.
- [An inclusive community offering healing, transformation, and belonging.](https://refuge.church/featured-pages/)
- [Outreach](https://refuge.church/outreach/)
- [Governance Documents](https://refuge.church/governance-documents/)
- [Contact Form (Counseling)](https://refuge.church/contact-form-counseling/): To contact Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Karen Culbertson (MH16543), complete the form below, or email karen@refuge.church. You may also contact her via phone at (239) 220-6007
- [Refuge.Groups](https://refuge.church/groups/)
- [Refuge.Youth](https://refuge.church/refuge-youth/)
- [Refuge.Kids](https://refuge.church/refuge-kids/)
- [Become a Partner](https://refuge.church/partner/): The one qualification for becoming a partner is that you are a sinner, and you know you need Jesus. It’s the one thing we all share in common. If you would like to become a partner (some churches call this “membership”) of Refuge.Church, simply complete the form below.  This form only needs to be done once/family.
- [Calendar](https://refuge.church/calendar/)
- [Contact](https://refuge.church/contact/)
- [Structure](https://refuge.church/structure/)
- [Beliefs](https://refuge.church/refuge-theology/)
- [Ministry Team](https://refuge.church/ministry-team/)


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