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Picking a Church Where You Feel Safe And Accepted

Choosing a church can be a challenging task. This holds especially true if you are new to the area or looking to switch congregations.

You want to find a place where you can connect with others who share your beliefs and values. With so many options available, how do you pick the right church for you? In this blog post, we will explore some key factors to consider when choosing a progressive church where you feel welcomed.

Do Your Research

You can begin by asking friends, family, or coworkers for recommendations. Also, you can do a quick online search for churches in your area. Look for churches that align with your faith and that offer activities that interest you. You can also check out the church’s website or social media pages to get a better idea of its mission.

Attend a Service

Once you have identified a few potential churches, attend an event to get a feel of the community. This will allow you to meet some of the members and leaders. It will help you to see if the church’s style and atmosphere are a good fit for you. Take note of how you are greeted and the overall energy of the service. 

Consider the Leadership

The leadership of a church can greatly impact its culture and values. Look for a church with leaders who prioritize inclusivity and diversity. The primary mission of any non-denominational church is to create a safe space for all members.

You can research the pastor or leadership team online, or ask members of the congregation. A church with compassionate leaders is more likely to foster a welcoming and accepting environment.

Seek Out a Community

One of the biggest benefits of attending a church is the sense of progressive Christianity it can provide. Look for a progressive church with an active community that offers opportunities for fellowship and service. Joining a small group or participating in a volunteer program can help you connect with others. It’s important to feel like you have a support system within the church.

Gauge Your Needs

At the end of the day, it’s important to understand your preferences when choosing a church. Don’t feel pressured to join a certain church or group just because it’s popular or recommended. Take the time to explore your options and find a church that aligns with your faith. Remember, that your spiritual journey is personal and unique. 

Thus, picking a church requires some research and reflection. Refuge Church is a progressive church in Fort Myers. At Refuge, we believe that everyone deserves a safe space to explore their faith. As a non-denominational church, we embrace diversity in all its forms.

Whether you are new to the area or looking to switch congregations, Refuge Church offers a warm community. Our 8-week series, Refuge.Basics, is a great way to get to know our community and learn more about our mission. Join us for a service and discover why Refuge is the place where everyone can restore and explore their faith!

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